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27 May 2006 @ 07:40, by Ge Zi

Just want to share this one:

TO ALL THE KIDS WHO WERE BORN IN THE 1930's 40's, 50's, 60's and 70's !!

First, we survived being born to mothers who smoked and/or drank while they carried us.

They took aspirin, ate blue cheese dressing, tuna from a can, and didn't get tested for diabetes. Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright colored lead-based paints. We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes, we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitchhiking. As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.

Riding in the back of a pick up on a warm day was always a special treat.

We drank water from the garden hose and NOT from a bottle.

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and NO ONE actually died from this.

We ate cupcakes, white bread and real butter and drank soda pop with sugar in it, but we weren't overweight because......

WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the streetlights came on.

No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K. We would spend hours building our go-carts out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We did not have Playstations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms..........WE HAD FRIENDS and we went outside and found them! We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever. We were given BB guns for our 10th birthdays, made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them! Little League had tryouts and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!! The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of. They actually sided with the law! This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers, problem solvers and inventors ever! The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned

HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!

And YOU are one of them!

CONGRATULATIONS!

You might want to share this with others who have had the luck to grow up as kids, before the lawyers and the government regulated our lives for our own good.

And while you are at it, forward it to your kids so they will know how brave their parents were.

Kind of makes you want to run through the house with scissors, doesn't it?!



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9 comments

27 May 2006 @ 17:50 by Kathie Lynch @68.7.108.148 : To All The Kids
Great picture, Gunter. Is that you in the middle? I think one of the main differences between now and the earlier decades you mentioned was that most mothers stayed at home and didn't have jobs that took them away from their families all day. They took pride in being a housewife and making home cooked meals everyday. Their family was more important than having that extra SUV in the driveway to keep up with the neighbors. I feel that not having your mother home when you go or come home from school is one of the main reasons there is so much juvenile delinquency and drug problems with children. I guess being a stay-at-home mom has lost its charm nowdays. So the children 'suffer' with all their gadgets to keep them happy. Just my 2 cents!:-))  


27 May 2006 @ 22:16 by Ge Zi @24.127.146.37 : so true...
...Kathie!
Not that we needed the mom, just the opposite. But just IF we needed her she was there and that security made the difference.
No, that's not me, not even my picture. But I sure built my go-carts and had problems with the brakes. Remember once running into the ice-cream man - who was delivering his ice with a custom bicycle - the rear a normal bike and the front a big ice box between two wheels - - and I hit one of those. But nothing broken or even bent, so he was just very angry with me and then let me go.
See you later  



28 May 2006 @ 21:59 by notoldto : happy
We were happy. It seems now that they won't be happy till, like the Matrix we live in a box and are safe from life.  


29 May 2006 @ 01:17 by ming : Kids
It's very true that article. And strange how attitudes change. I'd be freaked out if my kids did a lot of the things I did when I was a kid. Yes, I was outside playing all day, with BB guns, firecrackers, in building sites, abandoned houses, in the forest, by the lake, climbing trees, wrestling, throwing knives, playing cops and robbers, etc., and nobody worried, and nothing much happened. When I grew up one would happily leave a baby outside on the sidewalk in their baby cart, if they had falled asleep. One would happily let a 5 year old take the bus by themselves to the other end of town. Nobody ever drove me to school, I bicycled or walked the couple of kilometers by myself, yes, even in deep snow, hahah, and nobody worried.  


29 May 2006 @ 04:57 by Ge Zi @24.127.146.37 : Both ways
I know, ming, same here, had to take the bike to school, rain or shine (or snow).
Going up-hill - BOTH WAYS!  



30 May 2006 @ 21:59 by mx @201.1.10.9 : MC Escher's School?
Geez... you wrote: "..had to take the bike to school, rain or shine (or snow).
Going up-hill - BOTH WAYS!"

what kind of school was that, or rather, in what kind of place?

Must have been on a hill designed by MC Escher??!!
mx  



30 May 2006 @ 22:36 by hgoodgame : Great article Gezi..
mx, I'm sure he was being facetious, though sometimes life does feel uphill both ways.

I've had the same thoughts about how we survived that seemingly dangerous world. we had a lot of fun is how we did it and developed our imaginations faster than our hand/eye co-ordination. I rarely came in at night until my dad stood outside calling my name a few times, it was usually 'almost' dark by then.

And thank you Kathie, that's my contention too, it does make a huge difference having mom home. Not a very popular view these days, I'm sure.  



1 Jun 2006 @ 18:31 by Ed Dawson @66.245.205.185 : News to Flemming
I raised my kids the old fashioned way: running wild. My kids ran wild in the hills above Tujunga, chased cats onto roofs, fished a few hundred yards above Max's old house (the Pond), spray apinted street signs behind my back and just generally raised hell.

They both survived. Wadduya know! ;-)
cheers
Ed  



10 Jun 2006 @ 17:58 by blueboy : Those were the days... : )

THOSE WERE THE DAYS!!! Indeed!!!!

Once upon a time there was a tavern
Where we used to raise a glass or two
Remember how we laughed away the hours,
And dreamed of all the great things we would do

Chorus:
Those were the days my friend
We thought they'd never end
We'd sing and dance forever and a day
We'd live the life we chose
We'd fight and never lose
For we were young and sure to have our way
La la la la la la
La la la la la la
Those were the days
Oh yes those were the days

Then the busy years went rushing by us
We lost our starry notions on the way
If by chance I'd see you in the tavern
We'd smile at one another and we'd say

Those were the days...

Just tonight I stood before the tavern
Nothing seemed the way it used to be
In the glass I saw a strange reflection
Was that lonely woman really me?

Those were the days...

Through the door there came familiar laughter
I saw your face and heard you call my name
Oh my friends were older but no wiser
For in our hearts the dreams are still the same

Those were the days... ; )
 



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